=) kev, joycee-poo, jeff and i share our cookie cupcakes. Mmm...even tho it was some time ago...they were yummy w/ milk! =P
nursing gang (back l-r: jaymie, crys, sares, me, ceceilia, bev, val, elaine, anna, front: l-r: grace, arvee, jenna)
*sigh* today marked the end of clinicals for me this semester...Seriously going to miss it...have been totally blessed in this field...hahahaha...there hv been some crzy things happening during the day...i do not usu. walk into elevator doors, i don't usu. shuffle my feet all the way down the hallway to a pt's rm when i'm carrying a thermometer in one pant pocket, an oximeter in another pant pocket, two charts, and four styrofoam cups filled to the brim XP, i do not always walk into doors when leaving the pt's rm, i don't always wish to skip my breaks =P, i don't usu. climb chairs & tables to help pt's get things fr/ shelves that are too tall for me, i don't usu. come out of the rm looking perplexed w/ what i should do, i don't usu. say stoopid things to my clinical instructor just to make her laugh, i don't usu. eat when i'm on the flr...the donuts, candies, chocolates are just there...haha, they're out there to get us fat! =P, i don't usu. fall asleep in in-service classes, i don't usu. look twice at the medical staff...LOL --> no comment...sigh. I'm going to miss being a nurse on the flr.
Seriously? Seriously. Seriously? Seriously...who gets their fingers stuck together w/ super glue? Who doesn't watch sherlock holmes? Lol, it's better than the o.c. ewww, primetime soap opera...haha, JOKING...=P. Who laughs during a mushy scene in a chick flick just cuz it's so cheesy that it's almost impossible to imagine it occuring in reality? Who tries to talk whale language outside of a housemates window trying to get their attention, but instead getting the neighbours? Who get's paid $18/hr to be a dietary aide? A DIETARY AIDE who HANDS OUT FOOD TRAYS to pts on the flr...do i need qualifications to apply? =P Who rollerblades and almost falls flat on their face trying to get fr/ the road to the sidewalk AND hopes to get away w/ it b/c it's like in the dead of the night, but sees their neighbours walking back home fr/ the lib. who are waving madly at u >_> Who falls down the stairs while still holding onto the railing? Who tries to open the same door three days in a row when the door doesn't open at all. Who doesn't love to scare pigeons? Who hides their precious shoes under their bed the night before april fools day b/c they know that there will be retaliation the next day for sticking saran wrap on the toilet seats? Haha...*ahem*...yeah, lovely i know =P
Anyways, hv been watching the love and marriage series that was shown some time ago on 722.org...must say that it has been quite interesting. Some points that i got out fr/ part 1: addressed to gen. audience
- you need a standard to set yourself to
- God made Adam, Eve He "fashioned" Gen 2:18-25...yeahhh! =P
- 2 basic purposes of marriage--> a) procreation, b) illustration --> bring them into world to spread God's image thruout, blessing/ inheritance fr/ God, illustration of Christ and rltnshp w/ the church
- God's the one who causes us to desire marriage
- marriage is important enough that 'For THIS cause, he will LEAVE his family' --> find that kinda person who's important enough to do this
- someone who will send you farther along than you could do yourself
- the truth is so much more satisfying, gratifying and beautiful than anything else
part 2: addressed to men
- you need a goal
- Ephes 5: 25-33, ver. 32 key
- required that husband is head of household --> not b/c better, God said to lead a home like Christ leads the church --> needs headship --> two heads is a monster -> not right
- men hv responsibility to lead in love --> lover #1
- prob. w/ vision of love -> overwhelming force of "love", follow your heart, your hearts what it wants, don't choose who we fall in love w/, create the idea of "the one" -> cycle, unbiblical, don't feel love nemore -> think it's the wrong one --> Greco-Roman myth of love, if true then all marriages fail/ not safe, a) won't ever feel secure enough to get married, b) no objective way of knowing if it's the one c) that love is not transferable -> hv babies, not enough love for everybody --> prob. w/ God, don't 'feel' in love w/ Him, not right.
- define love --> biblical, ver. 25, Christ is the model for love, Jesus loves the churches b/c He loves the church, it's His bride, His convenant, He chooses to, Matt 22, Deut 26 "Love the Lord your God with all..."
- ***Biblical love is an act of the will (choice) accompanied by emotion (not void, but not directed) and leads to action on behalf of the object*** --> foundation on which marriages can be built
- act on the love of our choice of will --> lead w/ the will
- 2 Cor 6:14 --> need to be a Christian, 1 Cor 7:39 --> assumed, you marry IN THE LORD, 1 Cor 15:13 --> bad company corrupts good morals
- don't invest in ppl (gf's/ bf's) who aren't qualified
- i CHOOSE to love you
- led by emotion --> rollercoaster
- don't let him drag you behind him like a dog --> you are worth so much more
- choose a man whose love for you isn't based on your ability to satisfy him --> he will lay down his life for you
- good deal -> ordeal -> new deal --Tony Evans...when things go wrong in marriages that weren't right in the beginning --> Greco- Roman love
*The Lord is my shepherd; I have everything I need. Psalm 23:1 NLT
*His unchanging plan has always been to adopt us into his own family . . . through Jesus Christ. And this gave him great pleasure. Ephesians 1:5 NLT
*For you are all children of the light and of the day; we don't belong to darkness and night. Thessalonians. 5:5 NLT
*****Thank you Abba, my life is Yours to use...use me!!*****